A Refuge and Sanctuary
There is no other refuge and sanctuary than Rainbow Heights Club for lesbian,
gay, bisexual, transgender people, those who are questioning, and also
mentally ill. Rainbow Heights not only brought new friends from the
LGBT world into my life, but its existence gave me a sense of empowerment.
It was a wonderful day when I first joined the club in the summer of
2004 and I said to myself that the world seems to be becoming a better
place—a place where people with all types of problems, whether
health-related or whatnot, are provided with the necessary services
that enable them to function in today’s increasingly stressful
society. I somewhat came out of the depressed state of mind and was
happy—seeing life from a new perspective through my experiences
in Rainbow Heights . Attending the support groups, playing pool, watching
movies, playing board games, and socializing with new friends are most
of the experiences brought into my present daily life courtesy of the
Rainbow Heights Club. Going to this club brings joy and meaning into
my life. If the club were to close, I would be very upset and drawn
back into a lost state where I can’t even begin to describe the
situation. So let’s not close this place, please!
Rainbow Heights . . .A Story of Hope
My name is Michael L., and I am a member of an endangered
species, Rainbow Heights Club. This club serves a unique purpose, what
with helping both the mentally ill and the LGBT community at the same time.
I personally have come to respect and count on the sage advice given out
by the experienced and caring staff there. The people of Rainbow Heights
are a special bunch, able to handle a double stigma daily. The loss of
these specialists in the mental health community is simply wrong. I have
made many friends and acquaintances due to this club’s existence, and it serves as a safe
place for us to talk openly and without fear of reprisal. Few places of
this type exist in New York anymore. I have dedicated my precious free
time to fighting this indiscretion tooth and nail. Many have joined me.
We need many more. It is my hope, with this short letter to the community,
that we might band together and save this valued commodity that is Rainbow
Heights . I don’t think of this as an end, but as a new and glorious
beginning. God bless all of you. Thank you.
- Michael L.
After 17 Years... I am Now a Taxpaper!
I have been a member of Rainbow Heights Club for a
little over a year. My psychiatrist had been suggesting that I attend the
Club for about a year before I actually started attending.
I have been on disability for about 18 years and had not had much contact
with other people. I started to lose friends I had and my socialization
skills got weaker and weaker. Fortunately, I was able to start coming to
the Club. I started making acquaintances with the other members and slowly
but surely, my socialization skills started coming back. With this, with
time, my self-confidence and self-esteem started coming back and growing
to levels they had not previously ever reached.
After a year, I started feeling the need to increase my income over my
monthly disability check. With what I have gained from Rainbow Heights,
I was able to start thinking about getting a job part-time. I talked about
this in groups at RHC and with some good friends I have made at the Club.
Within a couple of weeks, I got the nerve(after having perused the want
ads for nearly a month) to actually apply for a part-time job. I had the
confidence to do this and work my hours around attendance at the Club (I
work at night). I am earning a paycheck for the first time in over 17 years
which is definitely a point of pride (and, indeed, I am once again a taxpayer).
I have new, good friends, my confidence and self-esteem are at higher levels
than they have been in more than 40 years, my socialization skills are
much improved, and I have been off medication and out of the hospital for
over a year, all thanks to Rainbow Heights Club.
- Steven H.
I Was in Agony...
Help from Rainbow Heights Club is vital. Before I
came here, I was always in agony—for about 9 or 10 years. I had no
place to go to alleviate the suffering. Rainbow Heights Club is a wonderfully
challenging place to again feel like a person. I am terrified that if the
Club closes on July 1, 2005 , I will return to the same state I was in
before it opened, and I may not survive.
The Only Day Program...
By all means, Rainbow Heights Club is like a day program for LGBT people
with mental illness. And it is the only day program for LGBT people
with mental illness. There is no other program like Rainbow Heights Club.
Without Rainbow Heights our clients would lose the opportunity and the
pleasure of being in a place where they can socialize, meet, and make friends
who are both LGBT and mentally ill. LGBT people with mental illness need
a place to congregate, a place to meet, a place to come together where
it is safe and welcoming—a place that can understand what it means
to be LGBT and also to have a mental illness. That place is Rainbow Heights
. There just is no other place like it.
Rainbow Heights helps its members to stay out of hospitals, to have mental
and emotional stability, it helps members develop social relationships
that are positive and meaningful, develop skills like writing, cooking,
speaking in social settings, being assertive; it also helps members find
out information about services that are available in the community such
as housing programs and benefits counseling.
Without Rainbow Heights, many consumers would not have the emotional stability
that the Club helps to build.
- Eric Jackson,
Off of Social Security, Working and Safe
I first came to Rainbow Heights as a member two
years ago. I was totally disorganized mentally and socially and it gave
me a framework, a safe space in which I could be myself (bisexual and
a person living with schizoaffective disorder.) I met people and got
much-needed support. Later on the most important part of my personal
journey occurred and I took a job as a Peer Specialist at Rainbow Heights
. It has been a wonderful experience, crucial to my livelihood and development—I’ve had a chance to work
in an environment supportive of my strengths and challenges without the
constant pressure of a job at an ordinary nonprofit organization. This
IS no ordinary place. It is magical. It has made me able to work with good
attendance when I previously had an absenteeism rate of 50% at jobs (due
to psychiatric symptoms and hospitalizations), and it has made me look
forward to days when I come here instead of dreading them. I care very
deeply about the people of Rainbow Heights —they are like family
to me. If this place were to close, I don’t think I would be able
to find another job, or another agency like it—I know I’d have
to go back on Social Security and I’d likely relapse mentally.
- Kate Spencer,
I started to volunteer at Rainbow Heights almost a year ago. I was their
first volunteer. The day that I arrived I was asked to join the members
in the lounge and talk a little bit about why I felt I wanted to be here.
I told everyone that it had become a priority in my community and in my
life to support LGBT mental health consumers. Since I have been here I
have watched members, who I have grown to care for dearly, grow and change
in ways I believe could only have happened with the support that they receive
at Rainbow Heights . The unique quality of this support is that it is a
matrix built entirely of consumers which provides an understanding and
connectedness that no other program can offer. It is amazing how much I
have learned about myself by coming and spending time at RHC; I think we
are all the same in this way, we are all volunteering parts if ourselves
in order to help support a growth process for people we care a great deal
Hour Train Trip for Unique Services
The Rainbow Heights Club provides essential services.
It may seem that the services here are duplicated in other agencies – that view point
does not take into account the ingrained homophobia and anti-gay and lesbian
attitude that one meets.
I have been to other clubs – not only was I subjected to sexual harassment
and come-ons by male clients, staff refused to take my objections seriously – and
some were actively anti-gay, literally preaching at me within club house
walls. In general I avoid clubhouses as I find such harassment intolerable.
Rainbow Heights is the only place I have not been subjected to such things.
- Michele M.
Bronx , NY
P.S. I come here, to Brooklyn , all the way from
the Bronx – an
hour and half by train – because I feel safe here.
My Safe Haven, My First Home
Rainbow Heights Club is my safe haven,
my first “home.” Being
at the club with people who I can trust has helped me let go
of things that were holding me back , so now I am more
self-sufficient because I know how to take better care of
myself physical, emotionally and psychologically. People are positive and
everyone works together here so it is easy to ask and receive help and
It is essential and vital that
Rainbow Heights Club stay open. Without a place like Rainbow Heights Club
people will go back to hiding, won’t feel safe to ask or get help,
and will have nowhere to go. Being so isolated can lead to becoming more
paranoid and having suicidal ideation, emergency hospitalizations or going
back to inpatient psychiatric care for months.
- Beatrice C.
My Best Thing
Rainbow Heights Club
is the best thing I ever found. It gave me my first opportunity
to have close friendships with people to accept me completely. Being with people
who can accept that I’m gay and have mental illness and have even “been
there and done that” has given me the confidence and trust to talk openly
and frankly about what’s going on. Whether it is about medication or
relationships I know that people will be sensitive and caring –it’s
easy to find someone to talk to here.
Without a place like Rainbow Heights Club, I am worried
that people like me will keep problems to themselves and go “back inside and not come
out.” Before I came to RHC, I stayed at home, didn’t go out
and didn’t want to face problems because I thought no one would care
or relate to what I’m going through. Now I have a community of people
who accept me completely.
- Michael L.
A Very Important Network
At Rainbow Heights Club, a very intimate part of me reaches
out in all directions; it reaches out to connect to the many unique people
who comprise this agency. The program is unique as it is where mental health
consumers can resolve the two-fold stigma of being LGBT on one hand and of
suffering from mental illness on the other. At Rainbow Heights, I have built
a very important network of people with whom I share and for whom I care.
Without this club, the net would be shattered.